Preparing for a Possible Divorce

Usually, a legally terminated marriage is termed a divorce. In all states, there are different laws regarding how to obtain a divorce. Grounds for the divorce and residency limitations are examples of these legal requisites. There are fault and no fault causes a divorce can be based upon. Most states' laws regarding these requirements are distinctive. 'Irreconcilable Differences' and 'Irretrievable Breakdown' are known no-fault reasons for dissolution that the court in most states usually allows. One of the most unsettling life decisions, the ending of a marriage can also be the most financially threatening.

The best individual to assist you on such an occasion is an attorney specializing in divorce. When having to decide about such crucial issues as custody of your children, money, and how to allocate possessions, this attorney will be there to give you guidance. You want to select a lawyer that has a strong background in Family Law. To help you select the best possible lawyer, pick the brains of your relatives, friends, and coworkers. Be completely open about your situation the first time you talk with your lawyer. The initial rate you are quoted may change, because the work involved in your individual case may change. You may have to pay a retainer in advance, as lawyers usually get paid an hourly price. Feel free to interview as many attorneys as it takes until you find one you are comfortable with. Following is a list of items to bring up when meeting with your lawyer:

o Prior Family Law background and years of experience.
o How long the process usually takes, and what you should prepare for.
o Total potential price, including paralegals and court fees.
o Inquire whether your lawyer or his or her firm has a Retainer Agreement stipulation.
o How/when your lawyer expects you to pay.

Any attorney worth his or her salt will give you straight answers to any inquiries about legal consequences and the basics of your particular case. A valuable lawyer:

o Shows competence by attending your hearings fully equipped to handle your case.
o Will clarify your expectations of the proceedings until he or she has a clear understanding.
o will not be victorious every time you have a hearing.
o May not always be able to be reached by you.

Before you sign any documents for your partner after start of the proceedings, make sure your attorney approves. Because legal actions and debates can be viewed differently by many individuals, it's a good idea to find out what your attorney's guidelines are.

Because a good attorney can make or break your case, be very selective. It is in your best interest not to change legal counsel once your case is filed. Before you retain another lawyer, ask your current attorney for all pertinent documents and things such as the judge's name, so you can avoid potential pitfalls while in transition.

Be sure to have confidence in and assist your chosen lawyer in any way you can from the start. Never forget that what you do has an impact on your future.